This post has been inspired by MariMar – a gifted blogger who re-blogged an excellent piece about spotting frauds claiming to be Dominants. It offers some great red-flags.
Is there any greater challenge in the world of D/s, than that of a sub seeking a Dominant? Not just a Dominant, but a Dominant who shares her perspective of the lifestyle. A Dominant with whom she can communicate. A Dominant who will treasure her and understand the precious gift she offers.
The very nature of the submissive soul places her in a vulnerable state, and if she is young or inexperienced it is a formidable task at best. Not just because finding a compatible match is difficult in itself, but because the field of potential suitors is riddled with frauds, liars, domineering egotistical men who prey on the vulnerable – and – well – you get the point. Even for a…
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